Addicted to Cheating????

Is it really possible to be addicted to cheating? I have been married for almost 7 years (7-year itch?) I do love my husband, although I don%26#039;t feel that I am in love with him. He takes care of us (me and kids) great, I have no issues there. My problem is that I am always looking for excitement, that is no longer in my marriage, which, I credit that to me. It%26#039;s not like I go out and just sleep with anyone, I would not do that. Anyone that I have ever had an affair with I have known for some time. I am not posting this to get rude comments, but I probably will, I really think I need help, and I am not sure where to turn. I am not sexually attracted to my husband anymore, hence the reason I cheat????

Addicted to Cheating????

Yes, I think you are addicted to the thrill and excitement of doing what you know is wrong and the possibility of getting caught. Eventually you will destroy your marriage if you don%26#039;t try and get some help. How can you tell that your not still in love with your husband when all your energy in this regard is tied up in the thrill ride you are getting from cheating? After 7 years it isn%26#039;t right or fair to compare how you feel about your husband to anything else. After all, it is normal for that attraction to fade to a certain degree.

Addicted to Cheating????

Yes, you are addicted to the chemicals released in the brain when you seek out the excitement. Been there done that, i know. Seek help from on-line services for love or sex addiction. You owe it to yourself, your hubby and your kids. Also know this, Christ died for the chance to set you free from this kind of bondage. Even the Bible had it%26#039;s share of %26quot;Bad Girls%26quot; who we are to look up to and admire!!

Addicted to Cheating????

Go seek help from an marriage counselor. Don%26#039;t justify your cheating by saying that it%26#039;s with people you know because that doesn%26#039;t matter. You already know what to do if you want to stay with your husband. How can he be exciting to you when you get your thrills elsewhere? Do you want to lose your family over this? You need to stop cheating as of yesterday. You have to put more thought and energy into your marriage. Stop thinking about other people and think about how you can please your husband and how he can please you. You should really cut all contact with these other men lest you be tempted.

Addicted to Cheating????

I think if you want to stop stop. If you arent going to stop condoms. I am not going to be the one to tell you to get Jesus or get some counseling. Sorry.

Addicted to Cheating????

Appearently you%26#039;ve become accustomed to your husband being around, as faithfull as I expect he is. I really think that you%26#039;ve decided not to become creative and imaginative as you really want to be. Another word%26#039;s, you get what you put into your relationship with your husband. You actually want from someone else to apply what your really not putting into your marriage. You know what you%26#039;ve got, don%26#039;t destroy it now. You just may get what distrust you already have inside of yourself even more... Dr Checko... (Nickname)

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Addicted to Cheating????

So he disgusts you, and you cheat on him. Why continue this charade. Either talk with him about how you don%26#039;t like having sex with him in an attempt to come up with a solution, or get a divorce in hopes of finding someone who is either attractive enough for you to not cheat on him, or who doesn%26#039;t mind you sleeping around and the associated risks that go with it.

Addicted to Cheating????

Get a hobby and get some marriage counseling. If he ever finds out you are going to hurt him badly and your kids too. It is not worth it. Make the best out of your marriage. Many people can only wish for a husband that loves them and takes care of them and healthy children also.