Why is it hurting so much?

my bf and i have been together for 4 years we moved in together a year ago because of his family they dont want the two of us together and well you could say that he showed them and he showed me. he wanted me to know trhat i was the most important thing in his life and he did not care well last we we had a big arguement in front of his family and some hurtful things was said on both of our paths that we did not mean.well his mother can in on her big white hoarse and carried him up to the country. my boyfriend does not have a phone because i was washed in his clothes and i cant talk to him the way i want because i have to be calling on his family members phones and they tell me the most hurtfull things evey time i call. he is 23 and they find that he has not accomplished anything in life yet and i am keeping him down last year we took alot of things on credit and paid it off in one year we eveny bought a car and extended a piece on my mothers house where we wre staying but that was not

Why is it hurting so much?

it hurts because u know it isnt fair. he is 23 and knows better. let him come back. when he does, let him know u hate the fact that everything was said but that it also hurt u and maybe u can try to make amends with his family