I came across my boyfriends credit card statement... it was just laying on the kitchen table. I noticed a lot of bars and clubs were listed. He makes me think he doesnt drink anymore. The thing is, some of them couldve been where he got lunch or dinner too. I dont really care if he went with his friends, its just the fact he never told me he%26#039;s been going to any of these places. We both decided to stop drinking a year or so ago, thats why Im wondering too. I know his statement was just laying on the table, but do I have the right to confront him since I was snooping? Maybe its nothing, but I feel like he%26#039;s hiding something from me. We have been dating for 1 year. How should I even confront him? I worry that he will think he cant trust me either...because I was so nosy.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
If the credit card statement was just laying on the kitchen table i wouldn%26#039;t say you were been nosy!
I would sit him down and talk to him...
tell him what you seen and how you feel about everything!
Tell him that you didnt care if he went with his friends, it just hurts that it seems like his hide%26#039;n stuff from you!
Tell him that you really care about him and that your here for him if something is going on, and that he can talk to you about anything!!
~GOOD LUCK~
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
girl let me tell you i am the most nosiest person inthe world.. if it was laying out it is free game!!!!! heck yes confront him ... he ahould not be hiding things form you .. go for it!!!!
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
If it was left out on the table, then he has no reason to expect that you won%26#039;t read it.
And if you and he have a commitment to leave off with alcohol, and you are concerned he%26#039;s not keeping that up, it would be irresponsible of you to *not* say something.
It doesn%26#039;t have to be accusing or judgemental; an angry demand will likely be met with defensiveness.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
Try asking him and if he asks how or why did it come up, tell him you wasn%26#039;t trying to be nosy but you found the statement on accident, but its all your choice. I wish you the best!
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
of course you can ask him about his credit card statment which was lying on the table but don%26#039;t be accusatory with your comments or questions. By all means be suspicious and hold him accountable to hold up his end of the deal.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
Communication in a relationship is everything. Sometimes when you snoop you find things out, that needed to have been told. COnfront him, he may not be able to trust you for snooping, but how long do you think you can trust him if you don%26#039;t ask. I mean you should be able to talk to him and ask him things with out him feeling attacked. Good luck
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
well if your being nosey than yeah he isnt going to trust you so if i were you i would just trust him and hope nothings going on...
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
who cares what he thinks, this is your life and you would like to know what you are dilling with here so do what you fill is right ? secure your future....
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
tell him that you are sorry for being nosy and usually aren%26#039;t like that, but you really need to confront him. even if he isn%26#039;t drinking there, he%26#039;s keeping a secret from you and it could become a problem later on in the relationship.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
You were wrong to snoop. Part of being in a relationship is trusting the other person. You should not %26quot;confront%26quot; him....however you should admit that you had %26quot;snooped%26quot; and that you had noticed that he had been to all these places. Then tell him your concerns without being confrontational or judgemental and see what developes from there.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
Here%26#039;s a different approach: if he is in the room with you and he sees you pick up the bill, that might be a little more subtle. That takes some of the %26quot;snooping%26quot; aspect out of it. You could say, %26quot;Here is your bill, what do you want to do with it? What kind of charges do you have on it anyway?%26quot;. See what his reaction is and then act accordingly. Unless the drinking is a source of problems in your relationship, I wouldn%26#039;t blow it out of proportion. Good luck!
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
Yes, that way you will know the truth about what he%26#039;s been up to and he%26#039;ll find out how nosy you are. Works well for both parties.
Should I confront my boyfriend about something I found out while I was being nozy?
you were snooping if it was laying there on the table. If you feel like he is hidding something from you then I was tell him %26quot;hun when I came home your credit card statement was on the table and I saw lots of chargers for clubs and and bars on there. I don%26#039;t care that you went there but I was just wondering if you started drinking again?%26quot; I mean if the bill seems high then he can%26#039;t say he %26quot;I brought rounds for the guys%26quot; because ususally that means he has to drink too (if he guys friends are jerks about him not drinking) If he feels like he can%26#039;t trust you then thats his problem because he really weren%26#039;t snopping it was there in plain sight. Just ask him about don%26#039;t be mad just say you were wondering because of all the clubs and bar charges?
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